Tenderness is associated with affection, a desire to take in arms and to hide from adversity. Children are taken in hands. They carry beloved in hands. The feeling of tenderness is experienced a small child when he puts to bed with him a favourite teddy bear for the night, embraces him, strokes and gently covers the blanket so that he would not froze.
The symbol of the heroic desire to save, hide and protect is a monument to a warrior with a saved child in his arms, installed in the Berlin Treptow Park.
Why does the Hero protect the weak, save them, help them in trouble? Because the Hero is pitiful to weak.
Tenderness is called a sweet feeling or a feeling of affection. Gently beloved call darlings. Have mercy, pity, host a favour thats what they say when they turn to this part of the humans soul. With a pity give alms.
The feeling of pity generates such quality of soul as mercy. Sisters of Mercy were called nurses in the World War I. Sisters of mercy were treating to wounded with a pity.
ENERGY OF LIFE
The souls of men and women, as well as the souls of all other animate creatures, are arranged identically. There are no exclusively male or exclusively female feelings; there are no exclusively male or exclusively female roles. There are also women with a heroic character. Such woman will stop the horse at a gallop, enter the burning log hut.
The woman with fire in a soul was sung by V. Vysotsky in one of the songs of a climbing cycle:
I asked you Why are you going up the hill?
And you were going to the top, and you were spoiling for a fight.
Elbrus is seen great from the plane
You sniggered and took with you.
Since you became close and affectionate
In the characteristic of the heroine of a song specified the qualities of soul connected with a heroic dominant of character: inspiration, tenderness, affectionateness and also charisma ability to lead (words are turned to her: I tried to keep step with you from the last force).
Women with a heroic dominant character are called fatal women. Because of them they lose their heads, go crazy with passion, they get carried away, they are jealous, because of them they shoot at duelling, commit suicide, let down the fortunes, rob banks, raise riots, overthrow governments and make revolutions. Meet the fatal woman to lose half life. Will shake up all soul.
Considering portraits and photographs of famous femme fatale women, studying the certificates of their contemporaries, it can be noticed that most of them did not differ in external beauty. Fatal femme women are attracted not by external beauty, but by an inner fire.
The bodys energy system is responsible for sexuality and sexual ability. It is not for nothing that the chakra svadhisthana (the center of the bodys energy system) is called the sexual chakra. People with a heroic character are different in the irrepressible tendency to sex. Women with a developed energy system, sometimes even at a distance, have an ardour emanating from the svadhisthana chakra. It is not by accident the womb where women are bearing children, is located near this chakra. They say about such women that they become pregnant from the first kiss.
Generally speaking, behind the word love can be hidden different feelings. Therefore, usually to the word love add a certain epithet specify the hue, type, kind of love. People with a heroic character are characterized by fervent love and tender love. It not for nothing to say about the Hero-lover: He is passionate and gentle cause an ardour, passion and tenderness are connected with the same role of the Hero.
But, it is known, the Hero-lover he is not only passionate and gentle, but also light-headed. Laura from the Stone Guest not for nothing called Don Guang my light-headed lover. The object of passion and tender feelings the Hero often changes. One and the same object of love quickly becomes boring for the Hero, it becomes boring, and people with a heroic dominant character do not tolerate boredom. The boredom drives them away. That is why their love is changeable.
People with a heroic character sometimes meet so-called Casanova complex. They need to achieve the desired goal associated with danger and risk. Without the passion of sex, they are bored after all, they need a storm of passion, a flurry of feelings.
Everyone knows the feelings associated with the role of the Hero: an inspiration, boredom and tenderness. Each person has a heroic beginning. Another thing that is one people have a lot of this heroic beginning but other people not enough.
With age the power of the body becomes weak, the heroic beginning decreases, feelings are cool down. They usually say about the person who has lost before an ardour of the soul:
But early feelings has cool down
(Eugene Onegin)
The heroic beginning is called the energy of life. They say about people whose character lacks heroic qualities:
There is no life in them, all dolls are waxen
(Stone Guest).
From boredom and from such waxen dolls Pushkins Don Guang has run away to Madrid.
When Lev Nikolaevich Gumiliov defended the dissertation according to the passionate theory of ethnogenesis, one of the members of dissertation council asked him: Can you explain on fingers who are passionarians? Understand! Not all people are grabbers, replied Gumiliov. This is true. Not all people are grabbers. There are also Heroes-passionaries. But there are grabbers too. It will be discussed about grabbers in the next paragraph.
§3. GRABBER
GRABBERS SOUL
There are people who are called grabbers.
Grabbers possess an increased susceptibility of the nervous system and a rapid reaction. The grabbers have increased skin sensitivity, perhaps, is due to the fact that many nerve endings come to the surface of the skin.
Grabbers role, three feelings are connected: greed (avarice), distrust (suspicion) and anxiety (concern, frustration).
GREED
The feeling of greed, avarice, lust, associated with the grabbers role, generates the desire to possess the object of lust. Greed and avarice are constantly encouraging grabber to use his chance, not to miss the prey, to have time to grab, to get ahead of others, to jerk to himself in time. That is why grabbers are called grabbers and graspers. They have a very developed grasping reflex.
The grabber is a lover of freebie and easy profit. Selfish greed, the desire to grab on the cheap generates a rush demand, when they throw out a scarce commodity. When to the hungry throw or the fight-dog the object of their lust, they, fuelled with greed, arrange among themselves selfish bickering.
Greed is the source of envy: another grabbed, he got it, but I did not! enviable. They say about grabbers: Greedy folk have long arms.
The grabber he is not only a grasper and a grabber, but he is also still cormorant and cheapskate, he is a miser and a chuff. grabbers do not like the word to buy very much, because to buy means to give money. They prefer the word to obtain, that is, to make a raise, to take, to find, to get a gift, to steal, and only in the most extreme case, after bargaining, to buy.