For convenience of the reader an effort has been made to arrange these sententious sayings under general subjects. These selected by no means exhaust the mine of African proverbial lore but are only a few nuggets that suggest the Negro's power to infer and generalize and to express himself in a graphic and concise way relative to life as he observed and experienced it.79
Anger
Anger does nobody good, but patience is the father of kindness.
Assistance
Not to aid one in distress is to kill him in your heart.
Birth
Birth does not differ from birth; as the free man was born so was the slave.
In the beginning our Lord created all. With him there is neither slave nor free man, but every one is free.
Boasting
Boasting is not courage. He who boasts much cannot do much. Much gesticulation does not prove courage.
Borrowing
Borrowing is easy but the day of payment is hard.
Chance
He who waits for chance may wait for a year.
Character
Wherever a man goes to dwell his character goes with him. Every man's character is good in his own eyes.
Charity
Charity is the father of sacrifice.
Children
There is no wealth without children. It is the duty of children to wait on elders, not elders on children.
Condemnation
You condemn on hearsay evidence alone, your sins increase.
Contempt
Men despise what they do not understand.
Covetousness
If thou seeketh to obtain by force what our Lord did not give thee, thou wilt not get it.
Danger of Beauty
He who marries a beauty, marries trouble.
Danger of Poverty
Beg help and you will meet with refusals; ask for alms and you will meet with misers.
Danger of Wealth
It is better to be poor and live long than rich and die young.
Disposition
A man's disposition is like a mark in a stone, no one can efface it.
Doing Good
If one does good, God will interpret it to him for good.
Duty to One's Self
Do not repair another man's fence until you have seen to your own.
Effort
You cannot kill game by looking at it.
Evil Doer
The evil doer is ever anxious.
Experience
We begin by being foolish and we become wise by experience.
Familiarity
Familiarity induces contempt, but distance secures respect.
Faults
Faults are like a hill, you stand on your own and you talk about those of other people.
Faults of the Rich
If thou art poor, do not make a rich man thy friend.
If thou goest to a foreign country, do not alight at a rich man's house.
Favor of the Great
To love the king is not bad, but a king who loves you is better.
Folly
After a foolish action comes remorse.
Forethought
A person prepared beforehand is better than after reflection.
The day on which one starts is not the time to commence one's preparation.
Forgiveness
He who forgives ends the quarrel.
Friends
There are three friends in this worldcourage, sense, and insight.
Friendship
Hold a true friend with both of your hands.
Future
Thou knowest the past but not the future. As to what is future, even a bird with a long neck can not see it, but God only.
Gossip
Gossip is unbecoming an elder.
Gentleness
A matter dealt with gently is sure to prosper, but a matter dealt with violently causes vexation.
Hate
There is no medicine for hate.
Heart
It is the heart that carries one to heaven.
Heathen
He is a heathen who bears malice.
Hope
Hope is the pillar of the world.
Ignorance
Lack of knowledge is darker than night.
An ignorant man is always a slave.
Whoever works without knowledge works uselessly.
Immortality
Since thou hast no benefactor in this world, thy having one in the next world will be all the more pleasant.
Injury
He who injures another brings injury upon himself.
Laziness
Laziness lends assistance to fatigue.
A lazy man looks for light employment.
Love
One does not love another if one does not accept anything from him.
If you love the children of others, you will love your own even better.
Meekness
If one knows thee not or a blind man scolds thee, do not become angry.
Mother
Him whose mother is no more, distress carries off.
Necessity of Effort
The sieve never sifts meal by itself.
Old Age
There are no charms or medicine against old age.
Opportunity
The dawn does not come twice to wake a man.
Patience
At the bottom of patience there is heaven.
Patience is the best of qualities; he who possesses it possesses all things.
People
Ordinary people are as common as grass, but good people are dearer than the eye.
Politeness
Bowing to a dwarf will not prevent your standing erect again.
"I have forgotten thy name" is better than "I know thee not."
Poverty
A poor man has no friends.
He who has no house has no word in society.
Riches
Property is the prop of life.
A wealthy man always has followers.
Sleep
Sleep has no favorites.
Strife
Strife begets a gentle child.
Sun
The sun is the king of torches.
Trade
Trade is not something imaginary or descriptive, but something real and profitable.
Truth
Lies, however numerous, will be caught by truth when it rises up.
The voice of truth is easily known.
Unselfishness
If you love yourself others will hate you, if you humble yourself others will love you.
Valor
Boasting at home is not valor; parade is not battle; when war comes the valiant will be known.